Wednesday, February 26, 2014

An so the adventure begins!

A little back story... My husband an I live a few 1000's of miles apart. Not by choice, we have plans to close the distance. It's just very hard an has many things that need to be handled first. So we both are alone ALOT. I came across an article discussing cockolding an hot wifery. This peeked my interest because it talked about how a woman's orgasam's differ from men. I could so relate to it. No matter how many web cam sessions or phone sex talks we have it's never the same pleasure or same release as when I have a cock in me. A lot of my frustration in our relationship was around that lack of release. A release I can't give myself. As I said in my last post I sent the links to my husband to read. An so the adventure began...


Since the epiphany an discussion we have come to find many places to look for me a play mate. Craigslist, Adult Friend Finder, Zoosk, iHookups, an most recently Ashley Madison. 


Most of the men on these sites don't meet my standards, I am a picky bitch. If I'm going to have sex outside of my marriage he needs to be the best he can be. Because my husband is the best there is. He is my everything, he pleasures me in ways I know no man will ever be able too. But it will be fun trying! 

We have found a few an have talked with them about what we expect from them an what I expect from the experience. No one yet I can honestly say I would shave my legs right now for. No one that blew me out of the water an impressed me till today... 

The beginning...

Hey everyone...*crickets* ok so Hi honey since your the only one who knows about this blog right now.... 

There is so much back history as to how we got to this point but I don't want to bore anyone who might read this right now so we will start with 2 weeks ago.....

My husband has always tried to be the dom in the bedroom that I want. He would grab my hair an ask me to suck his cock all while flinching because it's just not him to request such things. He is in charge all day at his work, when he is home he wants to relax an not have to make any more decisions. He is very submissive in the bedroom an at home. I have learned this time an time again over our years together. I can switch, I can be submissive or domme. I really can be either, but I like a man who can take control in the bedroom. I explained to my honey about the cuckold lifestyle, gave him a few links to read.
He came to a epiphany that I am right. He is submissive to my domme side. We decided that our now vanilla bedroom routine needed this. You see it's not always been vanilla an boring. We lead a very fulfilling an kinky bedroom life before we got married. Once married our dynamics changed an we became boring... Very boring....